Many practitioners come to me for training with too many preconceived notions about a specific art or training method. 

As an expert in my field it amazes me how people come to me not for advice, but to confirm their own personal beliefs.  Though this may benefit their egos, it typically does not benefit their abilities, especially when I contradict their viewpoints or pick apart their methods.

Typically this occurs with beginning or intermediate students who have limited experience; some times it is from a long time practitioner who has lived in an isolated world of training and experience. Real fighters who are coachable do not have such closed minds. 

Of all the people I have trained, the best, most skilled and most dangerous have all been open to new knowledge and techniques no matter how long they have been in the game. Though they come with a critical eye, they come without critique or criticism for things they have not experienced yet. Simply put, they stow their egos and reserve judgment until, like a scientist, they have examined and experienced what you have to say or do. Only after they have seen, felt and done do they make judgment. And even if they find what you have to say or do inapplicable to their ways, if it is indeed valid, that too is always noted.

It has been my greatest experience as a trainer to work with pros and to receive their comments, questions thoughts and theories with the known fact that we are both trying to find ways to improve and raise the bar as we go. 

Lesson of the sermon…keep an open mind. Think critically, but clearly. Withhold judgment until you have heard, seen and tried what is being presented. And if it does not work for you personally, acknowledge its value for others. That way, we will all improve together.

VPM

Head Instructor

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